Alcohol

To serve or not to serve...

The decision on whether or not to serve alcohol can be a tricky one. There are several factors that play into the decision but remember that neither choice is wrong. 

Below are some questions to ask yourself in help making the decision:

Are there religious reasons why you won't?

If it is against you religious belief than it makes it pretty simple in my eyes. The only question after is: are you conformable with the guests drinking? 

Are you afraid of what you guests will do if they drink enough to get tipsy?

If this answer is yes, I would say skip the alcohol or allow a certain amount to be sold only.

Does your venue require it?

A lot of venues now require a food and beverage minimum (including bar). Most give you an option of cash bar, cut off amount, or open bar. Side note: If you are looking at pricing packages most places only put in the open bar amount unless you ask about the options.

Are people going to bow out if you do not have it?

This one is sad but true. Some people are coming more for the party part than the wedding celebration. Weddings are a good way to find out quickly where you rate on your friend and family's list. Deep breaths. If people don't want to come because you are not serving alcohol than let them stay home. (Save yourself the money!)

Personally...

I'm still on the fence about serving it. I have my reasons and I think the final decision will be made when I lock in a place.